Friday, January 11, 2013

Happy New Year!


Jeez, where has the time gone?  Looks like the last thing I blogged about was Thanksgiving and prepping for our trip home.  As you can probably guess, or if you are a FB friend, you know the trip has come and gone and we spent lots of great time with family, friends, and Mexican food.  Savannah spent a lot of time with her friends from church and school, intermingling with some family time in between her social hours, while I spent as much time as my Fab 5’s schedule would allow with them, with lots of other friends, Mom & Dad, the nieces, and Michael. (When we were home, we decided to try and give this long-distance thing another go... anyone who said this love stuff is easy is lying!)  I spent a day at the office for meetings and got to meet up with some work folks for a local happy hour.  That was lots of fun and good to see their familiar faces.  I spent my birthday losing money in Lake Charles, but had fun while doing it so I guess that’s all that matters, huh?  Robert came into town for Christmas and stayed for the long weekend.  It was great to catch up with him and hang out.  We are working on a big trip in May to celebrate his 28th birthday, Savannah’s 16th birthday, and explore Asia together.  Any suggestions are welcome – we are in the planning stage but I need to get it in gear.  It’s already mid-January!!  We are thinking of places like Thailand, Hong Kong, Tokyo, Sri Lanka, or Malaysia… where else??  

While we were in Houston we were spoiled and got fresh hair do’s from the fabulous Aunt Lauri, gifted with enough product to bring back with us and last for the next year at least (let’s see how this doing our hair ourselves thing works out…), treated to homemade lasagna and cupcakes from Kent, enjoyed a big girls’ slumber party complete with a taco bar and array of wines, celebrated Christmas and had a few dinners with my brother and his family, went on a hayride with the kids to look at Christmas lights, had a welcome home party complete with Apple Pie Moonshine, were treated to manis and pedis, took family pictures courtesy of the fabulous team at  Allen Owen Photography, and oh, so much more I can't even think of right now.  We enjoyed everyone's time and talents, knowing it's a very busy season and sometimes hard to get away for a few hours.  I ate Mexican food almost every day while we were home and I loved every bite of it!  It was probably a good thing to get back here and start back with our chicken dinners, because all that food could have started making the pants tight again quick!  While it was good to see everyone and enjoy our old haunts, it wasn't really difficult for me to come back.  Maybe because I knew what to expect, had a routine going, felt more acclimated before we left.  It has, however, been difficult for Savannah this time.  She misses her friends a little more.  Misses sweet tea and Red Robin burgers more than before.  Misses her sweet cousin, who she did spend quite a bit of time with...  It's rough.  Please keep her in your prayers. 

When we got back, I was excited to get home to our little Dynamo and see all the fresh fixes the landlord was to have put in place at our flat while we were gone.  I was ready to see our new TV stand, have the DVD player, computer and Keurig all hooked up and ready to go, have the few small issues with kitchen drawers and cabinets fixed and even get rid of the small ant issue we had before we left.  I had been in contact with the landlord via e mail and he had the list ready to go.  On the way home from the airport (oh, without our luggage, by the way... because the flight was late leaving Houston and the layover in Frankfurt wound up being less than 45 minutes so we had to RUN from our plane to the departing plane for Chennai which was completely boarded by this time, and although we made it, our luggage did not!) Savannah asked if I thought our flat would be all fixed.  I told her of course it would - I had talked to the landlord the night we were leaving, showed him everything from the list, followed up in e mail , etc.  She doubted it.  The little brat was right.  We walked in and NOTHING had been done.  Ants still in the same spots and then some :(  No TV stand.  I was soooooooooooo annoyed.  No luggage.  No fixes at the house.  Dynamo wasn't coming home until the next afternoon.  And we had just traveled for 20+ hours.  Yeah, cranky Nikki.  Poor Savannah was all messed up from the time change, which didn't affect me since I am backwards over here, anyway... but she stayed home from school on Thursday.  I forced her back on Friday but she was still pretty off the clock over the weekend, but I've made her go back this week.  No excuses.  Back to the routine.  Last weekend was our "Annual Day Party" at work and we were going to try and attend, but between her jet leg, both of us not feeling 100% and me just being tired, we decided to pass and just stayed home.  Not to unpack, though, since the ants were still around, but we did get our luggage around 6 AM on Friday, special delivery, thank goodness!  Back to the story...  I went back and forth with the landlord via text asking what happened and he said "I thought you were going to be gone for three weeks, we were going to start today."  Uh yeah.  It was three weeks and no, you weren't.  Grrrr.  No change over the weekend... So Tuesday morning when I got home from work and ants were in the package of rice I was cooking for breakfast (we have an odd diet over here, especially me and my schedule..) and some ants poured out with it into the pot.  Let me tell you.  O M G!  I was PISSED!  We brought back over 2 suitcases full of the US foods we wanted and knew would keep (this might or might not have included 6 blocks of Velveeta cheese, which Michael still does not understand... but we will have lots of queso and grilled cheeses and other good stuff - thanks for the idea Brandy!)  and there were ANTS in my rice!  So, I picked them out.  One by one.  All ten of them.  Cooked the rice and texted the landlord at 5:45 AM.  I have been a pretty nice American up to this point.  There are lots of things undone around here since we moved in.  We still don't have our TV stand, a mirror in the hall bath, one socket working, etc.  But it's not a big issue so I don't make a fuss.  ANTS IN MY US FOOD IS A BIG ISSUE.  So I made a fuss.  Within six hours he had the pest control folks over here spraying our place and apologizing up and down.  I told him I was still annoyed, should not have had to let it get to that point, and let's get the other stuff fixed.  Three days later and the other stuff isn't started yet, but the ants are gone and I guess that's good enough for now.  I chalk most of it up to what my coworkers tell me is our time zone… IST - Indian Stretchable Time.  That's ok every now and then, but come on, already!  So this weekend I'll blow up his phone again and hope some other fixes get crossed off the list.  We'll see... always an adventure over here, that's for sure.

Today marks our six month mark in India.  In the beginning it felt like every day was soooooooooo long and every issue was insurmountable.  Now, I can't believe SIX MONTHS have passed and we only have a year and a half left!  I feel like I need to hurry up and do and see all the great stuff this country and continent has to offer.  That being said, 2013 will include some travel plans!  And visitors are welcome J  Come see us!  Savannah and I are also trying to plan to visit a friend and her family for a long weekend in Singapore next month, maybe, if we can get our schedules to jive.  That would be super fun and I hope it works out.  And we are planning a long weekend trip to the neighboring state, Kerala, for a backwater boat ride to see elephants in the wild, some natural beauty (I am still telling these folks in the office I haven’t seen the natural beauty of India yet and they keep telling me it exists… just have to get out of Chennai to find it…), and enjoy some local cuisine.  I hear the food is great and they are famous for the banana chips.  I’ve had them.  Yum.  Of course YUM, they are fried.  LOL  Oh, well.  I am lucky to have some of the best resources here in the office, as many guys are from Kerala and know the ins and outs for us to plan a great trip.  Should be fun. We will see the Taj Majal for sure before we leave, too.  Don't know if it will be in 2013, but it will happen.  I am still trying to finagle my way into a wedding while we are here.  There seem to be quite a few opportunities, so I am fairly confident that will happen.  Sometime soon I will talk about some more cultural stuff.  Like weddings.  And the recently highly publicized assaults against women.  And the not-so-highly publicized assaults against women.  And the treatment of women in general.  And drinking.  I am sure there are more items, but this will just be a few I'll touch on.  For now, this has become more of a novella than a blog post.  If you want to see our family pics, feel free to take a look and if you're in the Houston area, may I recommend my friends Craig & Becky at Allen Owen Photography!  Can't say enough good things about them and the pics turned out great!  Also posted some candid shots from our time in Houston. Click here to view them.
Wishing everyone a very happy 2013, filled with God's grace, laughter, love, family and friends.  Looking forward to a great year here in Chennai making awesome memories with my kiddo and new friends!

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