Thursday, September 26, 2013

September Stuff

I guess it’s been a while since I have done a proper update, so I’ll TRY really hard to make this short, but you know how that goes…

Many of you saw my post on FB the other day asking for prayers with Savannah’s school situation, and there were several people asking what is going on.  So I’ll lay it out for ya and really appreciate the continued prayers for quick (yeah, right- not in India… but a girl can dream!) resolution for this.  Before we came, I had done some research for American schools in Chennai and came up with only a handful.  I broadened the search to International schools and had a few more choices.  Upon arrival, we took some tours with Saint Gideon and settled on Gateway American International School, based on a couple things, but the biggest reason being that she would be able to combine 11th and 12th grades to graduate this year.  Unfortunately, it has recently come to light that this might not happen… I am in pretty deep discussions with the principal and the school in Florida through which they have their US accreditation to determine how we can make this happen, as promised when she enrolled, but (as with everything in India) it’s slow and tedious and filled with ME taking the initiative, starting the conversations, doing the research and coming back to the school.  Poor Savannah is stressing over it.  I keep reminding her God brought us here for a reason.  He will not fail us as we have not failed Him.  I am confident she will graduate this year, but in the meantime I am playing school administrator along with all my other roles.  The next role I am going to play is Mean American Mom, which is probably when some progress will be made by the school side.  Savannah said they are already scared of me because I ask questions, include Savannah in discussions and actively participate in the teacher conferences.  I can’t imagine it being any other way, but apparently that is not typical Indian parent behavior, as teachers and school administrators are not challenged.  Go figure.
A few weekends ago we went to our church’s conference, Word of Life - Friendships for Life.  This was the first church retreat I have been on since I was a teenager, so I wasn’t sure what to expect.  And I came right after work and was on “night schedule” because it was the weekend right after I got back from the second trip to the US, so I didn’t want to miss more work.  Needless to say, I was zombified most of Saturday.  But Sunday I was awake and really enjoyed the experience.  I was blessed to meet some amazing people, including a fabulously inspiring missionary who is currently living in Istanbul, Turkey and sharing the Word and Christ’s love. She has been a missionary in Asia for 25 years and she speaks Russian and some Chinese dialect.  AMAZING!  It was a nice time.  But the best part was seeing my kiddo, who was a leader for the kids’ church.  She wrote the lessons, assigned helpers based on age groups and languages (did I mention we had Nepali, Tamil, Hindi AND English speakers there??), prayed over, played with and taught all these different cultures.  She texted me Friday night telling me she was having a hard time due to language barriers, but she survived and even stayed up late at the group bonfire to do some dancing with the Nepali crew.  Saturday she was among a group of adults who took the kids to the nearby amusement park during the heat of the day, joined as a spectator as we watched 12 people give their lives to Christ through baptism, and enjoyed the bonfire and dancing again (while I slept!). Sunday was long and she was spent.  In the last hour or so, the power went out (imagine that!) and she used her mobile phone as a flashlight.  One of the kids reached for her, or she reached for them, and the phone dropped… screen cracked.  After the stress of working with the kids all weekend, she was in tears when she was explaining what happened.  (This is a new phone, mind you, and she seems to be i-gadget cursed as her cousin dropped her iPod and cracked it in December when we were home. Her brother sent her a new-used-iPhone that died a month later. We traded it in and paid for a replacement and this was it… cracked within a month of having it!)  After a good night’s sleep, she woke up refreshed and I reiterated to her that we would handle her phone.  I’d either replace the screen here or when we go back to the US and it still works, so it’s really ok.  She was more accepting that Monday than she was Sunday night.  I can’t explain the immense pride I felt for her and the effort and grace she put forth and eluded when working with the kids that weekend.  My heart still swells when parents I have not met or spoken to much approach me to tell me what a great job she did and how much her kids love her.  I have seen more kids come up to her after that weekend than ever before, running by to give her a hug or a high-five, making sure to say “Hi, Savannah!” or a quick hug and “Bye, Savannah!” as they come and go.  She really has a God-given gift with kids and it is wonderful to see her putting it into action, even when it’s hard and it stretches her.  Was she prepared to lead such a high number of kids?  Many of which didn’t speak English?  HECK NO!  But did she let it overwhelm her to the point of giving up?  Absolutely not!  Did she complain when she missed a worship session of singing and dancing because she was “stuck with the kids again” ?  Not my girl.  Pastor Shawn talked about her hard work and great job in our sermon last week and reminded us that all of Jesus’ disciples were likely under 20 years old.  Wow.  1 Peter 4:10 tells us, Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God's grace in its various forms.  I am so very proud of her for letting God work through her, grow her, and lead her how and where He sees fit.
Hmm what else is going on?  I am trying to hastily firm up plans for a “Golden Triangle” tour next month when Savannah has a few days off school.  This will include a couple days in Delhi, Agra (to see the Taj Mahal!) and the pink city, Jaipur.  We are super excited and need to get that wrapped up.  Before we know it, we will be home in late December and starting out 2014.  Where has the time gone?  I think I say that every time I write.  I do have a few things I want to chat about, but I guess I’ll save that for another time.  Among the topics are marriages, dresses and appearances, chicken pox, pregnancies and babies, and travel.  We hope everyone is doing well and appreciate your loving thoughts and prayers!  Hugs from Chennai!

Friday, September 13, 2013

Where did August Go?

Is it REALLY mid-September?  As difficult as it is to believe, I can't deny the fact it must be,  because rainy season in Chennai has begun.  The nights have included heavy rains, thunder and lightning, and since the city is not rain-friendly, there has been quite a bit of flooding.  Actually, this week the local schools were closed due to the rains.  All the universities, as well.  All except Savannah's.  Poor thing. So mistreated.  I don't feel so bad for her since school is less than five minutes away, but I know some of the other students do travel quite a ways, so I am sure they would have appreciated it being closed.  
The week started off a bit rough, as Lakshmi messaged me on Monday, saying her daughter was at the hospital having a Cesarean. I would have been excited for her, except this was the first I had heard about it and needed to make plans for my kiddo... I worked from home Monday.  Then Tuesday and Wednesday Savannah wound up at Cherie & Tom's.  Tonight she went to Paula & the other Tom's...  Tomorrow she will go hang with Sher & Shawn.  I am really thankful we have such great folks here to help out when things don't go as smoothly as planned around here - which is A LOT lately.  
I had to make another trip back to Houston only 10 days after we returned from the one I wrote about last time.  Fortunately, we do have this great network of friends (AKA Local family), because Savannah had already missed so much school that I really needed her here.  So I left her with Cherie & Tom during the week and Sheralyn & Shawn on the weekends. I had to get back on a plane - well 4 planes (Chennai to Mumbai, Mumbai to Abu Dhabi, Abu Dhabi to Chicago, Chicago to Houston - OMIGOSH it was exhausting!!) because, this time, my mom's side of the family suffered from a death.  It was unexpected and it was difficult.  I had to get home to help Mom and be there for her.  I am thankful I was so comfortable that I could leave my girl and go to another continent for a week and a half and not worry about her any more than I would if I was here locally.  What would we do without such great friends here?
So... really nothing much else going on here.  Our travel plans here locally are nixed at the moment due to all this other unplanned travel.  I am trying to get to Kerala to visit a couple friends who left Maersk and are back home with their families until they travel abroad.  We are wanting to go to Delhi, Agra (to see the Taj Mahal) and Jaipur.  We need a trip to Ooty, a "hill station" with cooler weather and some mountains.  Lots to see and do, not enough time to do it!
Until we get a chance to go somewhere else, we'll hang out and try to enjoy the cooler and much wetter rainy season. 
Hoping everyone is having a good September as we race toward the end of the year.  Won't be long and I'll be seeing everyone's Halloween costumes on Facebook!  Love and hugs from Chennai!